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5:46 Just some of my high heel musings...

First off, I just want to say that I am happy to be a member of this site. I feel that it has a lot of potential as a community. I hope that it will continue to grow and expand, while remaining on track.

I am a woman who lives the high heel lifestyle. That is not to say that I wear them 24/7, all day, every day. Some men I converse with online seem to maintain the fantasy that I must wear them constantly. Gimme a break…I live in Alaska. I love outdoor activities such as fishing, rock climbing, biking, etc, so that’s a no-brainer. (Sorry guys!) When I say that I am a “high priestess of high heels”, I mean that I have come to understand and embrace the esoteric aspects of the symbiotic feminine sexual power that I derive from them, and that they derive from me. This thanks in large part to the fact that I have a wonderful husband who has an intense high heel fetish…also thanks to extensive interactions and conversations with many others who share in this fetish aspect. These experiences have greatly increased my awareness that high heels (by high, I mean 4 inches or higher) are much more than mere footwear.

I like to think of high heel footwear as “magical feminine sexual weapons” or “implements”. It is important for me to state here that I am not a witch or sorceress, and I do not practice the magical arts. However, I do believe that the human mind is predisposed to assigning importance and value to objects and symbols, sometimes to the point of worshipping them or considering them to have “magical” powers. A good example is the crucifix. It is made of wood or metal or some other mundane material, basically worthless…but as soon as it takes the form of a crucifix it suddenly becomes this powerful object, capable of casting out demons and such. It becomes much more than the sum of its parts in the human psyche. The “magic” of the object is a product of human perception. The same principles apply to high heels in the mind of the fetishist. When the shoe or boot is formed, it takes on its own identity as an object of feminine sexuality. When it is merged with the female foot (which has its own “magical” fetish qualities), that’s pretty powerful stuff. The modern definition of magic, or magick (spelled that way to differentiate it from “sleight of hand”), is the process of effecting change according to one’s will. This may be through the use of objects or otherwise. When I strap on a pair of heels in front of my husband, I am effecting change on him in accordance with my will as he becomes totally attentive and sexually aroused, which was exactly the effect I was going for. When I walk into a restaurant or a club adorned in 5 inch stiletto boots, the effects are immediately noticeable, as I become the center of attention…there again, I used them to effect change on my surroundings. It’s not just me, it’s not just the heels… it is the combination of the two. I am getting power from them, they are getting power from me. They even effect change on me, as I suddenly feel powerful, confident, sexually charged. The union of foot and shoe concentrates sexual energy into a powerful weapon. The very knowledge that I can bring my husband to an explosive orgasm with just the mere touch of my shoe or boot on his penis is a major turn on, and I love the sacrificial act of him ejaculating on my feet and heels in tribute to me and my sexual power.

It boggles my mind that there are women out there who avoid high heels like the plague, almost as though they are afraid of them. That being said, there are some who are not physically able to wear them for whatever reason, and that is understandable. I’m talking about otherwise attractive, physically fit women. The only theory I have is that they must have issues with their own sexuality or self image, or some “moral” argument based on archaic religious beliefs. Women should embrace their femininity, and utilize every means available to reinforce it. That whole “weaker sex” thing…what a load of crap! So come on gals…wear those heels with pride!!!

I welcome your comments!!!

Stiletto Siren




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